That was an exemple. What I'm saying is that it seems you tend to transpose your own emotivity, keeping a defensive position, to what is adressed to you, when there's no arm meant or even while it is postive.
Take post 152... You wrote about four lines to defend yourself regarding your intentions somehow as if I were paranoïd... I surmise then the feeling that made you interprete and reply to my post that way with such a care - when it wasn't the point - has not come alone.
That's what I was calling "taking the wrong side for yourself".