Family members you just hate to hate.

We all got em. My now brother in law is the biggest D**khead on the planet. He and my sister married a couple of months ago long after they had a daughter. She is the absolute sweetest thing I have ever seen. She is a very good baby, and this is coming from a guy who doesn't really like babies.

They moved into my parents' house a year ago. I liked living with them a whole lot, and I even could say I really liked my then future brother in law. The year 2010 hit and he became a d**khead. It started when my sister got a PS3 for her birthday. Well, it ended up being his. He instantley took it over and that is all he does. Me and my sister earn our right to stay in the house without rent because we both cook, clean, and do yard work. He sits in his room all day, and when he actually comes downstairs it is to bitch and complain about how much he has to put up with.

He never shuts his mouth, and to be honest, he lies constantly about his past (he obviously doesn't know that I am the king of popular culture, so when he references shit he did in 1996, I can call him on it) Plus he makes his high school years sound like a B movie rip off of Fight Club

You can't sit and watch television without him blabbing about how much of an expert he is. I watch pawn stars all of the time, and I can't hear it because he has to rape my ears with inncorrect statements.

He was supposed to be looking for a job when he moved here A YEAR AGO, but he never has. He says "I am too qualifyed for this, and too awesome for that." He also said he would join the army if he couldn't find work. Well that worked out well. The asshole failed the drug test.

Now here is where I really hate his guts and hope he dies. He treats his daughter like she is the spawn of satan. He yells at her and pisses her off, just to hear her cry. She is warped because of him.

What I can't understand is, my sister appears to hate his guts, but she has stuck with him. I told her that many women stay with men like that because they feel they can't raise a child without the father. It isn't the case, all she has to do is divorce his ass and stay with my parents until her daughter is old enough to go to pre school.

I still haven't vented it all just yet.

Today we all got ready to head out on a 1 hour trip over to nashville to take my neice to the zoo and to see my dad who is living at an extended stay until he can get a house. Well, he didn't want to go because he felt sick. Boo hoo hoo. (WHINEY BASTARD) So my sister packed her PS3 for the trip so he couldn't have any fun. Well, when we got to nashville, the PS3 was gone. That was his plan, to stay in the house and play PS3 for 4 days on the big screen. My sister called his ass, and out of some unknown sorcery, he convinced her to drive all the way back home and get his stupid ass.

Here is where I come in. I told my mom that I would only go, if he wasn't going (because I would push him into the lion pit if I went to the zoo with him).

So my sister is now back home getting his ass, and ultimately ruining the good weekend we could've had.

Forgive me for ranting, but I got to get all this out or I am going to kill him. I am not kidding, he is making me insane. The mere sight of him makes we want to......., and hearing his voice is like hearing glass shards against skin mixed with Wagnerian rap music.

And to top on more on this pile o shit. He says my sister doesn't do as much as he does. We clean and every week, I mow the lawn and she cleans the house, whilst he sleeps or plays Call Of Duty. He is a d**k head.

There is a whole lot more, but that is all I care to say for now.

Do any of you have family like this? Do any of you have advice? I try to be nice and welcoming, but it's to the point to where I have to leave the room. If it wasn't for my neice, I would make his life the hell he has made me and my family's. Is she afraid of him or something? Something better change quick. It's going to get rough.

Sorry for the rant guys, but this has been eating at me for a long time.

How frustrating! I'm not sure what to tell you man. Maybe you should talk to your parents, surely they are seeing this too. It's their daughter and granddaughter being hurt here. I'm not saying to hold an intervention, but your sister needs to be flat out told that her husband is a jerkface and she needs to do something about it. I would say to suggest threatening him to kick them out if he doesn't shape up, but it seems like that would only exacerbate the problem. If he does this living in your parents' house with them and you around, he'll be even worse if they were living on their own, especially if he's too lazy to get a job.

I encourage you to talk to your parents about it though.

So this guy gets to play videogames all day while everybody else pays his way and takes care of him?  Do you realize, EyeShotFirst, that this guy is like a god to me?