Arguably, the defense of this nation defends you whether you like it or not, because it's defending a whole nation and not just a single person. It's a "national" issue and it's provided for in the Constitution.
Healthcare is a "personal" issue because the fees are being paid one patient at a time. 90% of the people paying for it won't be protected by it. It's definitely a "Person A makes Person B pay for Person C" proposition. If person or People A care so much about People C, then let them pay for them and leave Person B (that's me) alone.