Gaffer Tape said:
I haven't collected toys in quite a long time, but, in my opinion, it's actually kinda sad to judge these people on their hobby. It doesn't seem like there's anything wrong with it. And I would be quite satisfied if the ladies who don't find it a "turn on" would please get the sticks out of their asses.
I think it is more the obsession with something so lame and pointless. I don't think it is really judging them as in "Oh my, he collects toys! What... a... LOSER!" but more of a realization that their priorities are in such an unfamiliar place that it would be difficult to relate to them. What provoked the woman to make this comment was watching two grown men freak out about a store not having some new toys that were just released that day. I'm not a collector of toys or anything, but I have my fair share of silly nerdy crap decorating my place, but I too found those guys to be kind of pathetic. To be so excited about little children's toys that you HAVE to have them the first day they are available and are not afraid to go through great effort to obtain them.
Honestly, if the shoe was on the other foot and it was a girl who was obsessed with something like that, I would probably find it a huge turn off as well. On the other hand if she just had a couple of display cases on her walls and liked to add to the collection from time to time, maybe dropping by the toy section to browse the hot wheels cars sometimes while grocery shopping, that wouldn't be a fraction as weird and off turning as "OMG! A new line of hot wheels cars was released today! I've got my checklist printed off and I am going to dedicate the day to tracking down every last one of them!"
I dunno, maybe I have a stick up my ass too, but no matter how hot she is, that sort of thing would give me a hard time getting it up.