I'm sorry but that's just nonsense. It's misogynistic to get a laugh out of jokes about murdering women and tying them up in your basement and remarks about "complaining like a woman". You can rationalize it back and forth and find all sorts of clever rationales and ways of looking at it to reinterpret it and excuse it, but when you're done the essential truth remains. And I hate when people try to excuse unacceptable humor by trying to explain that it has such and such mentality that isn't offensive and is meant to be looked at such and such way. Last year a comedian made a joke that not enough Jews were killed in the Holocaust and all sorts of excuses were made to defend his joke and make it out to be ok, but really it was just an anti-semitic joke.