Vaderisnothayden said:

Humor doesn't excuse absolutely everything and nor does playing roles or whatever shit a person might want to try. What you find worthy of being presented as humor says something about you. And some things should not normally be used for humor.

Showing a guy with a tied up woman is his basement only shows that some guys are weird and dangerous. That is not humor against women, it's pretty much the opposit. And here the humor comes from the fact that the shot of this girl takes us by surprise, not because it is good fun to watch a woman crying.