God bless you and your family Adywan. Your family is more important than any old movie. If this project was more important than your family I wouldn't want it.
As for your fund-raiser proposition, I think you mean well, but it's bad timing. What good is money when you're worried about your family. I think it's great that you're trying to show your support for Adywan though. I think right now it's best to be an emotional support, and when the time comes and Adywan is ready to continue with the project then we should bombard him with our monetary donations.
Bombard him just like the TIE Bombers bombarded the asteroids searching for the Millenium Falcon in TESB. But right now we need to bombard him with emotional support. How's that for a terrible Star Wars related metaphor? ;)