TV's Frink said:

There is a deleted scene in EP 2 between Mace and Obi Wan where Obi Wan talks of Anakin's "connection" to Padme and how he is distracted by her. Yes, it wasn't in the movie proper, but the fact that Lucas filmed a scene like that indicates that he was at least thinking about it a little. Perhaps he cut it for that reason. At any rate, several faneditors have used that scene to replace the similar one between Mace, Obi, and Yoda, and using the deleted scene does make the Jedi seem a little more to blame.

That depends more on how the faneditor has re-edited the film with the deleted scene and on how Anakin is portrayed throughout EP2. If the editor has changed the story so that Jedi are allowed to love and marry, then that scene would serve more to establish that there is a connection between Anakin/Padme and that the Jedi are confident that Anakin will complete his mission despite such a distraction.

Personally, I think Lucas only used the theatrical "Yoda, Obi-Wan, and Mace" scene because he wanted to re-remind viewers of that stupid "Chosen One" prophecy from the last film... plus he really wanted to show Yoda riding around on a floating toilet. :P