On the subject of Star Wars:
-1, I hope you dont turn this into an x0 thread like it once may have been considered in the past, Im glad a fan has these materials, but if you do not feel that you are up to the challenge or personal life is getting in the way, please pass on the materials "in good faith" to one of the established member like adywan....where you would at least know your materials would be put to good use and you know you would receive said materials back after the work was complete

On the subject of relationships:
Its different strokes for people, but I always found this this rule to be useful
http://lura.net/03/romance/