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Post #364411

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sean wookie
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Answer Sean's Questions
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8-Jun-2009, 10:35 PM
C3PX said:
Asteroid-Man said:

I can't believe you asked "you wanna be my girlfriend?" You don't ask, after a few dates it just kind of happens.

 

Yeah, this sort of question is usually abandoned by the time someone reaches the end of high school. Typically you just let things progress, then if for some reason you still really need clarification you can have the "so where are we at in our relationship" conversation sometime further into the relationship when your communication has evolved beyond the 'Did I say the wrong thing?' 'Did I scare her away?' 'Does she still like me?' 'Should I call her or wait for her to call me?' phase

You said the two of you kissed? How did that go? If she was going to have a negative reaction to that, it would have been immediate (or at least I'd think it would have been). If she let you kiss her, I can't imagine her being scared away by you asking her if she wanted to be your girl friend. But seriously, when you are to the point of touching lips, you're usually beyond the point of asking if she likes you or not. Unless she just wants to have a good time with you without really being in a complex relationship, which, if that is the case, is something I would highly recommend you grab hold of and fly with.

Yes we kissed the first time was awkward. It was right after we all started getting up out of our seats. She wasn't expecting it and the lips weren't even. It wasn't my first kiss but it sure felt like it. Our last 2 were before I was getting out of her car (yeah that's right she was driving) this is also when I asked her to be my girl friend. As a bonus here a piece of her art:

[img]http://fc09.deviantart.com/fs48/f/2009/151/1/c/Down_where_we_belong_by_GetInfected.jpg[/img]