sean wookie said:TheBoost said:sean wookie said:
Though she wanted to pay and I of course wouldn't let her pay.
If you're cool being pals and hanging out with no kissy-face or more, more power to you. But if that's the case, you can't do stuff like this anymore.
So are you saying I should or shouldn't let her pay?
If you're just going to be friends, then let her pay. It would be akin to her taking advantage of you if you paid everytime ya'll go out. Imagine if you had a guy buddy who never paid for anything and left you with the bill, how would you feel? However, if it seems there is a potential for a future intimate relationship, you can pay occasionally, but she should pay sometimes also. Ideally, see if ya'll can fall into pattern where you pay every other time ya'll go out and she pays the other. That way it is fair.