Welcome from beyond the shadows frank.
vbangle like all of us here contributes and that alone is a positive that outways any misunderstandings that people might accidentally wander into on boards like this.
Everyone on here knows how much work Ady is putting into these projects (just as all of the editors on here do, editing generally is hard graft and projects like these even more so) but surely the point of posting opinions and ideas is to help each other make our projects as good as they can be (not to obstruct people or put them down and off from editing or contributing intellectually).
If we don't give our ideas and opinions they stay stuck in our skulls where they are no use to anyone.
An idea or an opinion is not a demand that a particular editor does something (not from this side of my computer screen anyway).
It's a donation of time and effort to a cause that the contributor feels is worthy of the effort.
Many of the changes that Ady has made came from suggestions that have been made here (some of which Ady changed his mind about after initially feeling that he wouldn't do it)and the same goes for other editors here.
As long as suggestions and opinions are constructive and polite, even if they aren't taken up, they are better out in the wild where someone might make use of them than hidden in the back of someone's mind.