I still find it funny you come into a thread with a title that pretty much says, "hey let's complain about the new Trek film" and then complain about people complaining. The fact of the matter is, this film is simply screaming out, "Hate me, I am going to suck as hard as I possibly can." You can hope this film will be hugely successful and awesome all you like, but it isn't going to fix anything. The best you'll be able to do is lower your standards and pretend that it is good, seems to have worked well enough for SW fans over the last few years.
I have no doubt this will be a box office smash though, I'll be very surprised if it isn't.