I think not buying the SE dvds is not such a great loss, after all it will just be 'another roughcut' in a few years. But unlike most OT fans, SE fans will have had their chance to get it on DVD. Oh well, Life's a bitch sometimes.
Edit: I don't think the 2004 release is due to fan pressure, it's just a marketing move to give Episode III a bigger momentum in 2005.