The OOT is canon to me, as they are the only SW-material that I truly love, and the rest of the stuff: PT, EU cartoons, EU books, etc is just guilty pleasure stuff that picks my interest, mainly because I am a such a SW nut.
If I know I can pop in ROTJ on DVD on my 51" HDTV and fully enjoy it in great quality and see Shaw at the end of the movie, then nothing will bother me anymore that Lucas says or does, because what makes me happy is there for me to enjoy, and the rest is just stuff I can choose to watch or not.