Another point is that it is not truly in the general vernacular except as a mistake. Even when used mistakenly, it always refers to the concept of a virgin birth in comparison to Jesus. As it is an exclusively Catholic concept and not just descriptive words put together to describe parthenogenesis (in other words, you won't ever hear a scientist or teacher use it when referring to amphibians or reptiles that spawn with asexual procreation), it does imply a comparison to Christ and a divine involvement. So when used in context of an Anakin Skywalker, it is still meant to imply or invoke a comparison to Jesus and divinity. Once a person is educated on the matter, he should use the terms correctly rather than perpetuate the incorrect usage. When used incorrectly, it comes across as ignorance in furtherance of appearing erudite. It's like how you can tell someone has little experience with computers when they refer to the picture on their desktop as their "screen saver". On a computer, the screen saver is a specific program that comes on when the computer is idle for a period of time to prevent the screen from burning in (on old CRT monitors) it's not the picture on their computer screens behind their icons. Changing the background of the desktop is one of the first things a person usually learns on a computer and they are often get confused by the terms.
The proper term is incarnation, which means literally "embodied in flesh", and it refers to the conception and birth of a sentient creature (generally a human) who is the material manifestation of an entity or force whose original nature is immaterial. That describes Anakin being conceived of the Force in a most succinct and descriptive way without involving any specific denomination or baggage.
For the record, I really didn't mean it to be a major thing, just a minor correction like fixing a typo. The only reason that it's gone on is that there's a difference in arguing differences of interpretation and correcting outright error. You aren't going to find an authoritative source that doesn't say what we've been saying. It's actually one of those things that rarely gets discussed educationally where the author doesn't point out the common error; like when someone is writing educationally about snakes, they almost always point out how snakes are not slimy despite the general perception that they might be.
Anyway, I've said all I care to on the subject. Do what you will, I suppose. If you were going to be published professionally, you would most likely receive the same comments from your editor. We love your work and greatly admire it. You've actually done the research and backed up things I've said for years but with so much more detail and dedication. It's nice to have an authoritative source for exposing Lucas' mischaracterizations of his conception of Star Wars over the years. We're just helping correct typos. You've put in all the hard work and love.