not sure what tl;dr. means but in answer to Dayv's question, if I wasn't here I would probably not be anywhere. I was absent from ot.com for almost a year, I kept in touch with a few members (sort of). It's not the same as it was back when I was an active member (I post rarely these days but I do read it quite frequently) but thing shave picked up lately - less dickheads, better discussions. I've given up on getting a high rank though.