The worst thing I think of all this is that this man's private life was made public. That is the grossest misstep of all. I wouldn't think it's good to speak to an 11 yr old that way, but that is nothing compared to how many people treat their children. That kid got a dose of reality. And it had to have been the mother's "people" who made this public. Who else would have had acess to the phone message. She's using her child to get what she wants. That makes her worse than Alec Baldwin.