The problem with the Superman II ending is this: its not the real intended ending. Lets say that it is ending v0.5. The original plan for the two films were as follows: Superman 1 would not have any of Lois being killed by the earthquake, the climax would be Superman racing to save the missile. He throws it into space, where it detonates and releases the Phantom Zone prisoners, who yell "freedom!" before advancing on earth--cut to title: "To be continued next year in Superman II!" Bum Bum BUUUUUUM! Basically it was the prologue of the Donner Cut of Superman II. Then Superman II would end as the Donner Cut did, with Superman reversing time. But after they abandoned Superman II 3/4 through shooting and focused only on Superman 1, they realised that the reversing-time ending would better suit Superman 1. Thus, the whole structure of the ending of part 1 and the beginning and end of part 2 was totally re-written. But then Donner quit/was fired before they could come back to complete Superman II. So the ending was never completed. What we have on Superman II The Richard Donner Cut is the original ending, but technically Superman 1 would have to be re-edited to be in its original configuration. I don't know how Donner would have solved the memory thing--the "magic kiss" of Lester's is not so bad, but probably Donner would just have Lois with the knowledge that Clark is Superman. But anyway, Lester's ending is not the true ending either, and in wanting to use as much Donner material as possible, Donner's original ending was kept intact, even if it raises some plot questions and would have been thrown away anyway.
The problem with the Superman II ending is this: its not the real intended ending. Lets say that it is ending v0.5. The original plan for the two films were as follows: Superman 1 would not have any of Lois being killed by the earthquake, the climax would be Superman racing to save the missile. He throws it into space, where it detonates and releases the Phantom Zone prisoners, who yell "freedom!" before advancing on earth--cut to title: "To be continued next year in Superman II!" Bum Bum BUUUUUUM! Basically it was the prologue of the Donner Cut of Superman II. Then Superman II would end as the Donner Cut did, with Superman reversing time. But after they abandoned Superman II 3/4 through shooting and focused only on Superman 1, they realised that the reversing-time ending would better suit Superman 1. Thus, the whole structure of the ending of part 1 and the beginning and end of part 2 was totally re-written. But then Donner quit/was fired before they could come back to complete Superman II. So the ending was never completed. What we have on Superman II The Richard Donner Cut is the original ending, but technically Superman 1 would have to be re-edited to be in its original configuration. I don't know how Donner would have solved the memory thing--the "magic kiss" of Lester's is not so bad, but probably Donner would just have Lois with the knowledge that Clark is Superman. But anyway, Lester's ending is not the true ending either, and in wanting to use as much Donner material as possible, Donner's original ending was kept intact, even if it raises some plot questions and would have been thrown away anyway.