This argument reminds me of an incident that happened in my home last year. In the middle of the night three rather large men with knives and bats broke into my home. I got my 9mm and went downstairs to take care of the problem, but as I took aim at one of them I realized that I didn't know a darn thing about these men as individuals. I asked them all if they would like a drink, and told them that I would like to get to know them each as individuals. The first guy informed me that he came from a broken home, and he was looking to steal some electronic equipment and jewelry. The second guy told me that he was a fan of trance music, and that he was really hoping to find some cash. The third guy said that he has constant urges to kill someone, and that he just came along hoping to stab someone to death. After our conersation they all agreed to forget what they had come for, and I agreed not to kill them. We hugged and smooched for a while and they left peacefully. It was one hell of a big gay party.