Of course you can assimilate. All you have to do is give up everything you cherish as a free-thinking individual. Your music, your porn, your favorite television shows, your favorite movies (Star Wars doesn't mean shit to them), your favorite clothing, piercings, tattooing, alcohol, drugs, certain foods, and so on. You'll also have to give up on sleeping in so you can get up at the crack of dawn and start your praying. All you have to do is convert to the Islamic faith... or you die. It's really rather simple.
It shocks me that me that more feminists don't scream more about the Islamic. The way they treat their women is deplorable. It is says to me that they really don't care about women at all, just the perpetuation of liberalism.