Originally posted by: Yoda Is Your Father
OK guys, it's pretty clear what's going on here, but can't we all just get along? I don't want Dayv or anyone else to leave OT.com but I also don't have a problem if he or anyone else wants to frequent another site. As Dayv mentioned in a post a week or so ago, there is no reason why OT.com and another site (which I won't name out of respect for Jay) can't co-exist, or even have a sort of unspoken partnership - a sister site, if you will. As far as I can see this whole thing is a non-issue. Having said that, I can totally understand why Jay would be concerned.
Dayv is someone I respect and enjoy talking with. I consider him a friend, and if he leaves I'll miss him. I'm sure we'll still converse via e-mail and possibly 'elsewhere', but OT.com is and always will be my online home and it will be a great shame if Dayv or anyone else started jumping ship. Surely this can be settled amicably without anyone feeling they have to stop being a member of the OT.com community.
I would rather have Dayv here rarely than not at all.
This "sister site" was established without the knowledge of our staff, and its members used our private message system to contact ot.com forum members and convince them to participate. Some recipients of these messages found the situation very suspect and notified us about it. The goals of that site are very similar to my intentions for fanedits.com, which I announced and requested feedback for months ago.
Attempts were made to reconcile the situation. They failed. I requested that no one link to that site from this forum because, quite frankly, I refuse to support it given its origins and the lack of respect showed to ot.com in its creation. Dayv circumvented that request by directing people to another site that links to the site in question, and his posts were edited or deleted because of this.
Dayv's participation here is his choice and it only ends if he decides that is what is necessary.
Warbler: don't demand. It irks me.