I don't think theres a person here who hasn't been through that situation. There's a girl i fell for years ago but we were close friends and it's still that way today. She knows I love her and that I would like to be with her but at the same time we can't because of circumstances but that doesn't change the fact that we're friends. If you're hurting yourself, which alot of us have done in some sort or fashion, you're really being a wuss about it. Sure, I've punched walls, and kicked stuff, screamed and yelled, and became a hermit to hide from the pain. There is only one release and it's masterbation...no just kidding, sorry just trying to lighten the mood, it's realizing that another person isn't what is going to make you happy. I used to think that way and I got married quickly because of it and then suffered worse from a bad divorce. Once you see that you can be happy without someone else it'll make you a better person for when/if someone else comes along.

I've been single for almost 4 years since my divorce and yea, I get lonely alot but I've seen that there is so much more out there to expiernce instead of locking myself in my room being sad about someone else. Now I just lock myself in my room and play online all day...it's totally different.