then why are you freting. dont ask her out and the problem is all solved. still act confident though, thats something you should doing for everything in your life. here is my theory, there are so many people out there that don tlike to think for themselves, either they can't, or they are afraid, or what ever. when these people meet people that are confident they automatically like those people, cause they feel they can learn from them and become better, or they can feed of that persons emotions and feel good.