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Originally posted by: sean wookie
How do I get people to like me?


I find nudity works.
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Originally posted by: sean wookie
Originally posted by: Darth-Adroit
Originally posted by: sean wookie We both have to take anti-depressents, go to a thereapist, Likes The Breakfast Club, we shared each others passwords for everything, I basicly leave when she leaves up north cause most everybodyelse hates me.


I say go for it. If you try and fail you might loose a good friend, but at least you won’t be lying on your deathbed and thinking of what might have been. You’re young, you’ll have many successes and many failures all of which will be better than the “might have beens.” No one dies thinking, “I sure am glad I never sacked-up and told the girl of my dreams my feelings.”

Why does everyone else hate you?


It may be in my mind but I was a bit emo last year.


Emo, you say? Make out with some guy in public. Girls will go crazy for you. Honest.
“Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country.” — Nazi Reich Marshal Hermann Goering
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Originally posted by: ricarleite
Originally posted by: sean wookie
Originally posted by: Darth-Adroit
Originally posted by: sean wookie We both have to take anti-depressents, go to a thereapist, Likes The Breakfast Club, we shared each others passwords for everything, I basicly leave when she leaves up north cause most everybodyelse hates me.


I say go for it. If you try and fail you might loose a good friend, but at least you won’t be lying on your deathbed and thinking of what might have been. You’re young, you’ll have many successes and many failures all of which will be better than the “might have beens.” No one dies thinking, “I sure am glad I never sacked-up and told the girl of my dreams my feelings.”

Why does everyone else hate you?


It may be in my mind but I was a bit emo last year.


Emo, you say? Make out with some guy in public. Girls will go crazy for you. Honest.


Im not emo anymore not that theres anything wrong with that.
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I love nice girls thats why I am in love with HER
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She would definately get it!
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"I'm not going to change the way I look or the way I feel to conform to anything. I've always been a freak. So I've been a freak all my life and I have to live with that, you know. I'm one of those people." ~ John Lennon




"God is a concept by which we measure our pain."
John Lennon

"Guilt for being rich, and guilt thinking that perhaps love and peace isn't enough and you have to go and get shot or something."
John Lennon

"He didn't come out of my belly, but my God, I've made his bones, because I've attended to every meal, and how he sleeps, and the fact that he swims like a fish because I took him to the ocean. I'm so proud of all those things. But he is my biggest pride."
John Lennon

"I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?"
John Lennon

"I believe in God, but not as one thing, not as an old man in the sky. I believe that what people call God is something in all of us. I believe that what Jesus and Mohammed and Buddha and all the rest said was right. It's just that the translations have gone wrong."
John Lennon

"Love is a promise, love is a souvenir, once given never forgotten, never let it disappear."
John Lennon

"It doesn't matter how long my hair is or what colour my skin is or whether I'm a woman or a man."
John Lennon

"If someone thinks that love and peace is a cliche that must have been left behind in the Sixties, that's his problem. Love and peace are eternal."
John Lennon

"If you tried to give rock and roll another name, you might call it 'Chuck Berry'."
John Lennon

"Music is everybody's possession. It's only publishers who think that people own it."
John Lennon

"My role in society, or any artist's or poet's role, is to try and express what we all feel. Not to tell people how to feel. Not as a preacher, not as a leader, but as a reflection of us all."
John Lennon

"Our society is run by insane people for insane objectives. I think we're being run by maniacs for maniacal ends and I think I'm liable to be put away as insane for expressing that. That's what's insane about it."
John Lennon

"Possession isn't nine-tenths of the law. It's nine-tenths of the problem."
John Lennon

"Time you enjoy wasting, was not wasted."
John Lennon

"Reality leaves a lot to the imagination."
John Lennon
"You don't need anybody to tell you who you are or what you are. You are what you are!"
John Lennon

"You either get tired fighting for peace, or you die."
John Lennon

"I don't intend to be a performing flea any more. I was the dreamweaver, but although I'll be around I don't intend to be running at 20,000 miles an hour trying to prove myself. I don't want to die at 40."
John Lennon
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1) Read both the lyrics and prose of Neil Peart (of Rush) and commit it to your heart. Look at the ups and downs of his life and draw from his drive to keep going.
2) Learn a musical instrument and pour your soul into writing songs.
3) Remind yourself daily that this is a pretty big world and the petty shit that transpires in school absolutely, positively will not matter the moment you graduate.
4) Listen. Don't wallow in your own thoughts while others speak, but condition yourself to be receptive to what others are saying at all times. The more you listen, the more you will empathize. The more you empathize, the greater your sense of purpose in the greater whole of society will be.
5) Spend less time online and more with real person-to-person interaction. But choose those people wisely.

I was in your shoes 20 years ago, in a time when doctors didn't hand out psychoactive drugs to minors like sweet tarts. I learned bona fide coping skills. Without revealing the intimate details of my life, the zit-faced, do-gooding 98-pound weakling who was terrorized by the cool kids for most of his grade school life is now a (knock on wood) successful businessman with a great home, a loving wife and child, a couple of satisfying hobbies, and time enough to hang here with you folks.

I don't think about my hometown much, nor do I dwell on my past. The day I left home for college, none of the crap was relevant any more. Only the academic and people skills I'd learned on the way.
I am fluent in over six million forms of procrastination.
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great advise ADM. couldn't have said it better myself.

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Yeees, yeees... to ADM you listen!

P.S Thanks for the John quotes Sean. And I definitely recommend learning an instrument and writing songs. It's a great way of making sense of your feelings and exorcising inner demons, and it does actually seem to make people like you, which is a nice bonus. But I've slowly learnt that you should do it for yourself and not others. I spent a lot of time trying to write a 'hit' then realised I didn't actually want a hit. It takes time though - I'm 25 and I still feel like a lost, angst ridden teenager on a regular basis.

War does not make one great.

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i love performing. whether it's in a band or solo. the ultimate in highs. plus i look pretty dashing in a tux.

but i digress.

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Originally posted by: DorK313
If you can build the confidence to ask your sister out you are more than ready to ask any other chick. BTW, you realize that most of the movies you listed were huge successes so I don't see how that makes you counter-culture. Now maybe if you said you thump the TMNT2 song by Vanilla Ice every where you go that would be different.


I've known the T-U-R-T-L-E Power rap from the TMNT movie credits since I was 8. Does that make me cool?

Please say yes...
MTFBWY. Always.

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Originally posted by: ADigitalMan
1) Read both the lyrics and prose of Neil Peart (of Rush) and commit it to your heart. Look at the ups and downs of his life and draw from his drive to keep going.
2) Learn a musical instrument and pour your soul into writing songs.
3) Remind yourself daily that this is a pretty big world and the petty shit that transpires in school absolutely, positively will not matter the moment you graduate.
4) Listen. Don't wallow in your own thoughts while others speak, but condition yourself to be receptive to what others are saying at all times. The more you listen, the more you will empathize. The more you empathize, the greater your sense of purpose in the greater whole of society will be.
5) Spend less time online and more with real person-to-person interaction. But choose those people wisely.

I was in your shoes 20 years ago, in a time when doctors didn't hand out psychoactive drugs to minors like sweet tarts. I learned bona fide coping skills. Without revealing the intimate details of my life, the zit-faced, do-gooding 98-pound weakling who was terrorized by the cool kids for most of his grade school life is now a (knock on wood) successful businessman with a great home, a loving wife and child, a couple of satisfying hobbies, and time enough to hang here with you folks.

I don't think about my hometown much, nor do I dwell on my past. The day I left home for college, none of the crap was relevant any more. Only the academic and people skills I'd learned on the way.


wow thats some good advice, i could almost hear the song sunscreen in my mind when i was reading that. there is some good advice in that song too.

to sean, here are a few more things

1.Don’t worry about the future; or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm on some idle Tuesday.
2.Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with people who are reckless with yours.
3.Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes you’re behind. The race is long, and in the end, it’s only with yourself.
4.Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults.

(all from the sunscreen song)
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Perhaps this comic strip here may explain why some people are not liked, and others are:

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“Voice or no voice, the people can always be brought to the bidding of the leaders. That is easy. All you have to do is tell them they are being attacked and denounce the pacifists for lack of patriotism and exposing the country to danger. It works the same in any country.” — Nazi Reich Marshal Hermann Goering
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I've guess i've been known for attracting girls that are hotter than me.
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Originally posted by: DorK313
If you can build the confidence to ask your sister out you are more than ready to ask any other chick. BTW, you realize that most of the movies you listed were huge successes so I don't see how that makes you counter-culture. Now maybe if you said you thump the TMNT2 song by Vanilla Ice every where you go that would be different.


I've known the T-U-R-T-L-E Power rap from the TMNT movie credits since I was 8. Does that make me cool?

Please say yes...


Does with me and I got the cd.
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I'm going up north a day after tomarrow I hope I will be ready.
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Actually, I thought about taking up the piano. I guess I should've started a long time ago, eh?
"I don't mind if you don't like my manners. I don't like them myself. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter evenings."
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Use it wisely, my friend.
"I don't mind if you don't like my manners. I don't like them myself. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter evenings."
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Everyone on the board and their scroll-wheel fingers thank you.
"I don't mind if you don't like my manners. I don't like them myself. They're pretty bad. I grieve over them during the long winter evenings."
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ADM that is some of the best advice i've seen on this broad. i'm glad you live a happy and fufilling life. sean he's very right about the high school thing, cuz once you're out, nothing really matters. it's harder for me to talk about it cuz i loved highschool and had a lot of friends, and a solid group who were always there to support me. but there was a time in elementary school (gr 5 and half of gr 6) were i was not a part of the 'popular crowd' and i remember how that stung. so i can relate!
just keep your chin up! and remember you are one SEXY STUD.

~* you know you love me... xoxo *~