I had kinda a scary week last week (which I'll post about elsewhere) but the result was a good one. Just the thought of where things could have gone kinda rattled me to the bone. No one can ever know how one will take events nor know exactly how experiences like yours will affect them in the long run but as others have said if there's *anything* we can do to help just let us know.
We geeks have to stick together in good times and in bad.