Originally posted by: sean wookie
Whats flaking on you mean? And what do you mean by call her out on it.

Flaking is not turning up/calling when someone says they're going to (like standing somebody up on a date). Calling them out on it is basically seeing the situation for what it is - girls make up excuses so that they don't have to meet up with you, and often they're just waiting for you to call their bluff and give them a hard time about it.

Friends or not, this is what your attitude needs to be: you are a cool guy who's worth hanging around with; anyone would be lucky to spend some time with you; your time is very valuable and not a thing to be wasted.