here is a good tip if that happens, figure out her mood, and if you miss what shes saying these two comments are golden.
if happy, OH yeah thats awesome, followed by a question, any question, just make sure it semi applies
if mad, man that sucks, followed by dont worry about it, people are stupid, and they jsut dont realise things
those will do you good hahaha. but yeah for the most part i am really good a hearing people out and giving good advice.