yes that excellent advice.... try and listen to what she is saying, otherwise later on she might ask for your opinion and you will just look stupid if you weren't listening to what she said. most girls will get really pissed off if you don't listen to what they are saying while gossiping/bitching/ranting etc... thankfully i really couldn't give a fly rat's ass if my bf wasn't listening to my gossipping... lol that's what my girls are for. i just expect him to put out.. and of course "grind or go home!"