okay yeah its on the shaggy side. but hey that is fashion right now. my buddy scotty is a totally ladies man and has shaggy hair and it looks really good on you. me i'm not the biggest fan, i like the clean cut guys, and it sounds to me like your girl would rather you have hair a little shorter. maybe go to the barber and ask for a "small trim' see what they do. cut the bangs a tiny bit. and the back like an inch and i think it will look good. but keep the bangs, they look good on you. cut your hair so that you can see your ears.

but hey dont just do this all for the girl, you gotta do it for yourself too. don't EVER change for someone, they should like you for you!