Nanner, it's really no secret that everyone does it. Me professing it does not make me uncomfortable whatsoever. I suppose it does some, though, shall I shall not remind you again. But my post above was used to explain my confusion at why someone would consider "wanker" an insult, since everyone does it and it is a very normal, healthy thing to do. Everyone masturbates. It's a fact of life. You know it. I know it. Everyone knows it.