I'm 21 and single right now, one could say it's by choice. The last guy i dated was an asshole-in-disguise. basically to define that, he came across as a really nice, sensitive, caring guy who seemed to truly be interested in me and not just my body/looks. well turns out after a few months, i got to know the 'real' him. not so nice and caring and sweet anymore. it was a good thing he was outta town by then or i would have made some really big mistakes. the sad thing is i'm not entirely over him even tho i wish i was.
my problem is i fall for the charmers because they say exactly what a girl wants to hear. but at the same time i take a break from these type of guys to date the innocent sweet nerdy guy with the glasses (and yes glasses are my personal fav... think clark kent
) but for some reason, i just can't seem to stay in a healthy relationship with those kind of guys. idealy i'd want to get serious and marry one of them, but there as to be that chemistry between us; i'd say i'm a passionate person and i have to express that. the thing i absolutely stand against is long distance relationships, just from a previous relationship that totally blew up in my face. basically i've got my shells of protection and only those really lucky guys get a chance to get close to me. i may come across cold and a bitch to them, but its only my defense mechanism against the jerks who wanna get into my pants. thus comes the reason why i developed such an attitude. the problem with me is i'm so upfront and in your face when it comes to flirting... the shy guys are intimidated by me and the total assholes see me as a challenge and someone who will talk back in their face. altho don't get me wrong i love to argue you all know that from my posting.. i like to 'start shit' without a doubt, i'm quick with the comebacks. but i believe sometimes it gets me into a lot of trouble when a guy thinks he's met his match (female wise).
personally if i had my choice i'd be dating Tom Welling, unfortunately he is married.... thats okay i'm a patient person. lol