trying to talk to people who aren't in the know about marriage and kids is different now. they have a totally different idea of what life is about. i also don't mind one bit having a daughter at 23. i used to go out all the time while my parents stayed home. now, when i call them, they are going out and i'm home stuck with my kid! but once i get to that age it will all be worth it. plus i get to see her grow up. any older than when we had her would probably have been a bad move. i really don't want to be 50 and still have to take care of a teenager!
