alternatively just remove Luke and Leia kissing (both times).
that’s better for me personally. Leia being Luke’s sister is just too iconic and ingrained at this point. Luke and Leia’s conversation in ROTJ is so good and her being used as emotional leverage by Vader also makes it all worth it.
That works for me too.
Come to think of it, I wonder if this was ever an idea Lucas had for any OT re-releases.