Originally posted by: supercoolio
1. what software to use when capturing ? VirtualDub is a good choice.

Originally posted by: supercoolio
2 . Should I de-interlace the image or use filters after I capture If you're capping NTSC-film, then it's preferable to IVTC before encoding. Noise reduction filters are also useful.

Originally posted by: supercoolio
3. should I capture directly to DVD or use lossless codecs like Huffy

Sure, use huffy if you have enough space, or MJPEG if you want better compression. I wouldn't recommend capture direct to MPEG-2.
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4. how to make an anamorphic image from 4:3 widescreen laserdisc ?

Crop out the black bars, stretch vertically to your new resolution, and add (smaller) black bars back in if necessary.
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5. are their some good tutorials already out there , I cant find any that are that good .

Try here.