it really depends (dare I say it) on whether you have a 4:3 (1.33:1) or 16:9 (1.78:1) TV/monitor. If the former, I recommend either the TR47 (Cowclops v.1)set or the EditDroid set; if the latter, then the Cowclops v.2 set or Citizen's set (currently incomplete).
As far as supplements, RowMan's 4-disc set is the best around for starting out. Beyond that, you could look at babyhum and ocpmovie's stuff.
If you don't want to become a fanatic, don't look at Rikter's selection.
BTW, welcome.