I didn’t know the term was taboo 'round here.
Sorry to briefly go off-topic again, but it’s not that it’s taboo or anything, just that I don’t like it. Perhaps ‘social justice warrior’ used to make fun of people whose activism - while perhaps morally correct - is all online, and annoyingly relentless and self-righteous. Now I almost always see it used for people who just want social justice, particularly diversity in storytelling, when that is completely justified. The term has become near-meaningless, outdated, and I resent still having to see it on a regular basis.
I can see why you’d find Rose’s line “that’s how we’re gonna win: not fighting what we hate…” etc idealistic. Personally, I don’t see that as a problem, since a lot of Star Wars is idealistic anyway. My problem is it’s a bit corny and contradicts Finn’s arc across the film: saving what/who he loves (Rey) instead of fighting the First Order is exactly what Rose stops him from doing at the start of TLJ.