There is a way to provide meaningful criticism and debate an issue without doing it in a rude way.

When I initially post the criticism in the first place, it doesn’t seem rude, more like pointing out what it’s missing or how it’ll negatively affect the movie/edit. Think of how a parent calls out their child for doing something wrong, or something similar with authorities and people who’re unintentionally breaking laws. I’m sure you guys have good intentions, but I’m just trying to let you see the bigger picture here.

You act like your ideas are better than anyone else’s

When? Name a few examples.

and then turn into a defensive ass when anyone calls you out on how you are rudely criticizing something.

Again, so you guys’ll listen.