“It was I who bridged your minds” is the only problematic line imo. But people here prefer the twist that he orchestrated literally everything, which I can sort of understand.

I’m content enough with him scolding Kylo intentionally, knowing that it would “stoke Ren’s conflicted soul”, and as a result Rey would be more likely to see a chance of redemption in him. So in a way, he still orchestrates Rey coming to him, although he uses a tool which isn’t his own in order to do it.