I’m definitely down with Stunners, and the way the films are originally doesn’t really bother me either. But the cutting out how they were conscripted makes Finn seem much more evil and complicit… and as far as Rey having an emotional connection to Ben’s death, well… she knows him, and cares about him. It isn’t exactly shocking that Luke went from needing to kill Vader to being unable to once he found out Vader is his father…

And Finn nearly was shot by Poe at the beginning of TFA. Luck is what saved Finn on Jakku, not Poe’s morality.