I think there are a few threads on making menus for blu rays further on in this section of the site? It may be the same or similar for DVDs also?
It may be easier to put the films onto USB drives for your friends and family: rather than burning discs, making menus, printing out artwork, buying cases and so on?
ooj has a great USB cover and case thread for ideas and inspiration, and there may be other similar ideas in the ‘Case Covers, Disc Labels, and Fan Art’ forum, if you go with the USB drives?
But respect to you if you choose to go down the more tradtional route 😃