Haha, that is a good way to summarize it!
It definitely makes me think Rey’s story in IX should’ve focused on her wrestling with the varying expectations people have for her. Leia and the Resistance expect her to be the heir to the Jedi legacy, Palpatine wants her to become the next Sith and Empress of the Empire, and Kylo Ren wants her to join him and start a brand new order. In the end, Rey makes her own path.