I feel you. The homestead was touching as a denouement, but you’re right that she should have been with her new family.
The image I had in my head for the end of this trilogy and 9 movie saga was something bigger, grander, more musical than what we got. I just imagined everyone in the Resistance gathered together on some big cliff being joined by the multitudes given hope by Luke, with X-wings and A-wings flying in formation and generally going crazy. Rey on the shoulders of Finn and Poe, her lightsaber raised to the heavens in triumph, John Williams losing his mind with grandiosity.
But no, it’s a somewhat awkward shot of the twin suns for the third time, and a reused piece of music from TFA.