if Leia’s planet blew up, I’d expect more than “we have no time for sorrows commander”.
I take it your aren’t in the military nor do you know many who are.
That’s just how things are. She’s got bigger fish to fry at the moment. No time to cry about your home when you’re trying to literally save the rest of the galaxy.
But even her tone is too unnaffected.
Lucas was criticized for his direction at the time, remember.