First of all, I’m not a guy.
Secondly, you’ve implied that being gay is a problem in the same way that being a pedophile is. No.
I’m the bad guy for saying this?
Being gay isn’t a serious mental health issue in the way that pedophilia is. Being gay is being different; with nothing inherently bad or damaging to others. Being a pedophile is also different, but bad in every single way and they need serious help.
Also, how am I on a moral high horse if my moral is ‘kids shouldn’t be found attractive’!?