i haven't e-mailed the lady yet but I think I can wait until the next time I see her to ask her if I can contact her. She may end up giving me her phone number. who knows what'll happen. When the friend of mine gave me the e-mail address i told him that I should get this from her not him and I lost that oppurtunity once she left. My other buddy who I've known longer told me that you should forget about thisd girl if no other oppurtunities to talk to her come up. And he's right, I have gotten hung up on women in the past. In fact, there was this one that I didn't talk to for five years and still had a thing for. I have since gotten over her, but for this current girl, I've made a descion, if she does in fact move to Detroit or just plain shows up again, then I'll have oppurtunity to talk to her, but if she doesn't show up ever again, then tough just forget about her and move on.