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Post #1245655

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ChainsawAsh
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The "101 Ways to Kill Off-Topic For Good" Thread
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Date created
3-Oct-2018, 3:24 PM

Warbler said:

ChainsawAsh said:

Warbler said:

ChainsawAsh said:

Or the fact that he quoted my quote of your post to respond to rather than your actual post. That would be insulting to me.

The person in question already knows why I am not engaging with him. He is free to take it to the mods. But I suggest he quote which rule he thinks I’ve broken. I would also point out that I think he has been very insulting to me in the last month or so.

This. This shit right here. This is fucking childish. And a perfect example of the entitled attitude you carry around with you.

Entitled attitude? I could maybe see someone thinking it childish, but entitled attitude?

Yep.

Mods would not intervene

Because they’re not at your beck and call to punish anyone you don’t like. That’s entitlement. Thinking the mods are your own personal police force that will ban anyone you complain to them about.

so I took the only solution I could think of and decided to not engage with him anymore.

While loudly announcing so. Like a child telling his friend “Will you tell so-and-so that I’m not speaking to him anymore?” when so-and-so is sitting right there.

You think everyone here has to treat you exactly the way you want them to treat you at all times, and if they don’t, they’re being unreasonable or bullying or harassing and you run and call for Wook or Jay. And sometimes they take your side just to shut you up for a while, which leads to you thinking you were in the right and digging your heels in with your attitude even more.

When it’s so fucking easy to just stop responding and skip over people’s posts if you don’t like what they’re saying. That’s probably what I’m about to do with this conversation myself, though I guess that depends how you react to this post.

I’m trying to help you understand how your behavior affects others, and how that affects the way they behave towards you. It’s created a feedback loop where you get offended or upset by one little thing and it just spirals until someone gets banned or leaves the forum in a huff.

Believe it or not, I want to help you get to a point where you can enjoy coming here again and can interact with other posters without them feeling like there tiptoeing through a minefield. But I think it might be too late for that.