Warbler, when multiple people say they feel you have a persecution complex, for you to effectively say “citation please” is to deny the accusation as patently false.
Asking for proof and clarification is not the same as denying something.
I’ve already told you that you need to purpose to stop holding grudges, to which your response was not much more than a *shrug*.
maybe people should also stop holding grudges against me as well.
People aren’t just saying you need to lighten up like it’s a thing to gang on Warbler or whatever. You genuinely honestly need to work on not taking things people say so seriously. Coming from me, speaking for myself, I am very much not picking on you when I say that.
I know you aren’t.
that hurts.
The bottom line is, people don’t want to have to outline, ad nauseam, each and every instance by each and every user from whom you have ever felt picked on, nor discuss why each of those individually are or are not warranted.
It is difficult to come to any sort of agreement or understanding or solution when people don’t wish to discuss the facts and whatnot of the situation.
Calling us to do so will not get the response you seek because such a request, to be frank, is unreasonable.
trying to discuss this situation to come to an understanding isn’t reasonable?
We have neither the time nor the inclination to pore over individual examples of what hurts your feelings, especially if it appears you are unwilling to take advice given into consideration.
I am at least listening. That should tell you something.
You are responsible for your own life. You get to decide how you respond to those around you. Yes, they ought to be civil and polite, but when they aren’t that doesn’t absolve you of wrongdoing on your part,
I never said it absolved me of any wrongdoing nor do I think it does.
nor does the community at large want to listen to the ensuing back and forth.
without some back and forth, it is difficult to come to an understanding.
One person says I have made multiple false accusations of harassment. I wasn’t sure who and what he was talking about, so I asked for names and whatnot. I see nothing unreasonable about asking for that info. When names were given, I then talked about each case. I see nothing unreasonable about doing so. *shrugs*