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The "101 Ways to Kill Off-Topic For Good" Thread — Page 5

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ChainsawAsh said:

You see that, right? How you can see someone making a joke at someone else’s expense and you play along and find it amusing with no problem, but as soon as it involves you in even the slightest or mildest of ways, you cry harassment and bullying and tell the nearest authority figure how everyone’s out to get you and they deserve to be punished for it?

I hope, for myself, that I have shed this same perception some people have had of me.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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dahmage said:

42 - post in the politics thread every day

43 - Create My Little Pony threads in each subforum. Repeatedly link posts in various threads elsewhere on the forums to those threads.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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chyron8472 said:

dahmage said:

42 - post in the politics thread every day

Create My Little Pony threads in each subforum. Repeatedly link posts in threads elsewhere on the forums to those threads.

i can’t help but point out that you posted this right after posting that you hope you have lost your perceived persecution complex.

we notice everything.

also, this should be a numbered item if you are adding it to the list.

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dahmage said:

chyron8472 said:

dahmage said:

42 - post in the politics thread every day

Create My Little Pony threads in each subforum. Repeatedly link posts in threads elsewhere on the forums to those threads.

i can’t help but point out that you posted this right after posting that you hope you have lost your perceived persecution complex.

I’m not feeling persecuted. It’s just a bad idea to talk about that because [reasons irrelevant to this conversation]. Also, it was a joke.

When I was feeling persecuted was when the conversation wouldn’t drop. At this point it’s in the past, and the threat of starting something again is all just a joke. I was just thinking about it because it riled up the mods, not because I’m sore.

also, this should be a numbered item if you are adding it to the list.

Done.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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dahmage said:

dahmage said:

we notice everything.

i got that it was done on purpose

Not so much on purpose as was a train of thought. For the record, I’m not sore. If I ever bring it up, it is entirely in jest, because like you guys say it’s better to not take things too seriously. Especially learning to not take taking-things-too-seriously too seriously.

…and now I’ve had to explain my joke, which by definition ruins it. Oh well.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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Warbler said:

ChainsawAsh said:

Doesn’t mean you get to behave as if you’re entitled to more respect than everyone else.

You see that, right? How you can see someone making a joke at someone else’s expense and you play along and find it amusing with no problem, but as soon as it involves you in even the slightest or mildest of ways, you cry harassment and bullying and tell the nearest authority figure how everyone’s out to get you and they deserve to be punished for it?

I don’t think I’ve done that. I don’t think I’ve ever made an accusation of harassment over just one joke. If I make a call of harassment, it has to do with multiple things(multiple comments, actions, context, history, etc).

I haven’t been here as long as you have, but you definitely have made several false harassment claims over the past four years that I’ve been on the site, against varying users.

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44 - Give everyone on the forums moderator access to Off Topic.

JEDIT: Except the regular moderators and the administrator.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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If I have made false claims of harassment, please tell me names and times that I did it and links if possible.

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Okay what I said earlier was too harsh and not true. Saying I’ve never liked you isn’t really true or a reasonable thing to say, and I apologize for that.

And it’s not entirely accurate for me to say I don’t like you now either. A more truthful way to put it is that I don’t like how you’ve been acting lately.

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Warbler said:

If I have made false claims of harassment, please tell me names and times that I did it and links if possible.

Me, Frink, Possessed, Bingowings, oojason. Others too, probably. It’s funny because my earliest ever memory of you on this forum was when I first to came to off-topic and at the time Bingo was taking a temporary leave from the forum and every time someone mentioned missing him you’d talk about how anyone that wanted him to come back actually wanted you gone because you couldn’t possibly use the same forum as some horrible guy like Bingo. It was pretty embarrassing. The most embarrassing one, in my opinion, was when you claimed that Frink was mocking your Christianity recently even though there was absolutely no reason to think that he was. You wanted my thread discussing police brutality deleted because it was too offensive to discuss things that happen in reality. You also wanted me banned for engaging you in an admittedly heated debate over the anthem, because it was harassment to point out the flaws in your thinking. You wanted me banned for responding to your public posts, which you claimed was harassment. It wouldn’t even surprise me if you reported this post even though you directly asked me this question.

Most often you aren’t being as specific with who you think is trying to ruin your life. It’s typically a more general “Everyone hates me” style of persecution complex, as is evident almost everywhere.

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Possessed said:

Okay what I said earlier was too harsh and not true. Saying I’ve never liked you isn’t really true or a reasonable thing to say, and I apologize for that.

And it’s not entirely accurate for me to say I don’t like you now either. A more truthful way to put it is that I don’t like how you’ve been acting lately.

feel free to tell me why/what you don’t like how I’ve been acting lately:

https://originaltrilogy.com/topic/Give-Warbler-Feedback/id/59418/page/2

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Warbler said:

Possessed said:

Okay what I said earlier was too harsh and not true. Saying I’ve never liked you isn’t really true or a reasonable thing to say, and I apologize for that.

And it’s not entirely accurate for me to say I don’t like you now either. A more truthful way to put it is that I don’t like how you’ve been acting lately.

feel free to tell me why/what you don’t like how I’ve been acting lately

He already has.

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moviefreakedmind said:

Warbler said:

If I have made false claims of harassment, please tell me names and times that I did it and links if possible.

Me, Frink, Possessed, Bingowings, oojason. Others too, probably. It’s funny because my earliest ever memory of you on this forum was when I first to came to off-topic and at the time Bingo was taking a temporary leave from the forum and every time someone mentioned missing him you’d talk about how anyone that wanted him to come back actually you gone because you couldn’t possibly use the same forum as some horrible guy like Bingo. It was pretty embarrassing. The most embarrassing one, in my opinion, was when you claimed that Frink was mocking your Christianity recently even though there was absolutely no reason to think that he was. You wanted my thread discussing police brutality deleted because it was too offensive to discuss things that happen in reality. You also wanted me banned for engaging you in an admittedly heated debate over the anthem, because it was harassment to point out the flaws in your thinking. You wanted me banned for responding to your public posts, which you claimed was harassment. It wouldn’t even surprise me if you reported this post even though you directly asked me this question.

Most often you aren’t being as specific with who you think is trying to ruin your life. It’s typically a more general “Everyone hates me” style of persecution complex, as is evident almost everywhere.

Thanks for typing all of that out so I didn’t have to.

The larger point is - if we went through your post history and gave examples of false claims of harassment or bullying with links, it would be multiple pages long and probably crash the forum.

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Warbler said:

DominicCobb said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

If I have made false claims of harassment, please tell me names and times that I did it and links if possible.

It might be wise to continue the conversation in this thread:

https://originaltrilogy.com/topic/Give-Warbler-Feedback/id/59418/page/2

Oh it works just fine in here.

If you wish, I just feared we may have gone too far in the direction of derailing this thread.

I assure you any derailment like this is entirely on topic for this thread.

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ChainsawAsh said:

moviefreakedmind said:

Warbler said:

If I have made false claims of harassment, please tell me names and times that I did it and links if possible.

Me, Frink, Possessed, Bingowings, oojason. Others too, probably. It’s funny because my earliest ever memory of you on this forum was when I first to came to off-topic and at the time Bingo was taking a temporary leave from the forum and every time someone mentioned missing him you’d talk about how anyone that wanted him to come back actually you gone because you couldn’t possibly use the same forum as some horrible guy like Bingo. It was pretty embarrassing. The most embarrassing one, in my opinion, was when you claimed that Frink was mocking your Christianity recently even though there was absolutely no reason to think that he was. You wanted my thread discussing police brutality deleted because it was too offensive to discuss things that happen in reality. You also wanted me banned for engaging you in an admittedly heated debate over the anthem, because it was harassment to point out the flaws in your thinking. You wanted me banned for responding to your public posts, which you claimed was harassment. It wouldn’t even surprise me if you reported this post even though you directly asked me this question.

Most often you aren’t being as specific with who you think is trying to ruin your life. It’s typically a more general “Everyone hates me” style of persecution complex, as is evident almost everywhere.

Thanks for typing all of that out so I didn’t have to.

Bingowings:

I admit to having problems(a lot of problems) with Bingo. But I will say he was very nice to me when my father died, so I think I may have misjudged him. I thought we were getting along better before he took this latest leave of absense.

Frink:

I deeply regret the accusation I made against Frink that he was mocking my Christianity. But I admitted I was wrong and apologized.

Possessed:

I don’t think I have accused him of harassing me. I do believe he has made some adversarial posts about me and I do believe he is angry with me. But I do not accuse him of harassment.

oojason:

I choose not to discuss this here because it is a moderation issue, also he is no longer a moderator.

As for others:

I will admit to feeling ganged up on at times and that I feel I am not as well liked/respected as I used to be. It may be a combination of my own fault and the fault of others. I wish things were different.

Then of course there is the one charge of harassment against a certain forum member that I still believe to be true.

The larger point is - if we went through your post history and gave examples of false claims of harassment or bullying with links, it would be multiple pages long and probably crash the forum.

that hurts.

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DominicCobb said:

Warbler said:

DominicCobb said:

Warbler said:

Warbler said:

If I have made false claims of harassment, please tell me names and times that I did it and links if possible.

It might be wise to continue the conversation in this thread:

https://originaltrilogy.com/topic/Give-Warbler-Feedback/id/59418/page/2

Oh it works just fine in here.

If you wish, I just feared we may have gone too far in the direction of derailing this thread.

I assure you any derailment like this is entirely on topic for this thread.

Ok, you’re the op.

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Warbler, when multiple people say they feel you have a persecution complex, for you to effectively say “citation please” is to deny the accusation as patently false. I’ve already told you that you need to purpose to stop holding grudges, to which your response was not much more than a *shrug*.

People aren’t just saying you need to lighten up like it’s a thing to gang on Warbler or whatever. You genuinely honestly need to work on not taking things people say so seriously. Coming from me, speaking for myself, I am very much not picking on you when I say that.

Warbler said:

that hurts.

The bottom line is, people don’t want to have to outline, ad nauseam, each and every instance by each and every user from whom you have ever felt picked on, nor discuss why each of those individually are or are not warranted. Calling us to do so will not get the response you seek because such a request, to be frank, is unreasonable. We have neither the time nor the inclination to pore over individual examples of what hurts your feelings, especially if it appears you are unwilling to take advice given into consideration.

You are responsible for your own life. You get to decide how you respond to those around you. Yes, they ought to be civil and polite, but when they aren’t that doesn’t absolve you of wrongdoing on your part, nor does the community at large want to listen to the ensuing back and forth.

TV’s Frink said:

chyron just put a big Ric pic in your sig and be done with it.

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Warbler said:

Then of course there is the one charge of harassment against a certain forum member that I still believe to be true.

I find it funny that you don’t treat me with any humanity as though I’m some kind of bastard orphan that’s now a burden to an uncaring extended family or something, but then you claim that I’m the mean and evil one. It’s not as funny as how you just directly asked me a question and then ignored my answer. That was really hilarious.

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moviefreakedmind said:

Warbler said:

Then of course there is the one charge of harassment against a certain forum member that I still believe to be true.

I find it funny that you don’t treat me with any humanity as though I’m some kind of bastard orphan that’s now a burden to an uncaring extended family or something, but then you claim that I’m the mean and evil one. It’s not as funny as how you just directly asked me a question and then ignored my answer. That was really hilarious.

Or the fact that he quoted my quote of your post to respond to rather than your actual post. That would be insulting to me.