I suggest reading the following threads thoroughly, in this order:
Thought on de-SE'ing the DVD
***The "ADigitalMan Special Editions" DVD Info and Feedback Thread***
***The "9000" Saga Edit***
As they answer a lot of your questions and, more importantly, explain the thought processes and learning experiences.
Beyond that, the 9000 Saga Edit most closely resembles what you're looking for. That thread may offer you the holy grail without all the work, but if nothing else, it's a jumping off point to base your own edit.
Hope this helps steer you in the right direction, and welcome to the machine.